Gate 37 Energy in Human Design. Elevate Your Boundaries.
The Sun moves into a different gate approximately every 6 days. This creates a particular energy that we collectively experience, depending on where that gate is located on the Human Design bodygraph (chart). Each gate (little number on your chart has particular qualities. Whether you have this gate defined (coloured in) or not, you will experience this energy, and so will your clients, team, family etc.
If you don’t yet know your Human Design, you can look it up here. It’s such a powerful tool for self-awareness, self-leadership and knowing how to reconnect with what’s most natural for you.

The Sun is currently transiting Gate 37. This is known as the gate of Friendship or I consider it Relationships more broadly. Traditionally, it’s known as The Family and is part of the 37/40 channel of Community.
You’ll find it in the solar plexus/emotional centre on the far right of your chart. It may be coloured in or not.

This gate shines a light on how we give, receive, and find belonging in our relationships, work and/or business. These relationships might be with your clients, team, family and friends.
Gate 37 is in my conscious Moon. This is the Moon shape on the right side of the chart, and it relates to what drives me.
This includes:
- Helping clients to create more balance in their lives, not just in strategy, but in their energy, emotions and relationships.
- Helping them to feel a sense of belonging and where they feel seen, supported and empowered to be themselves.
- To create ease and flow over hustle and struggle by rejecting the need to push, overwork or compromise their wellbeing.
- Learn how to have fair energetic exchanges – whether it’s boundaries, pricing, or time, I’m all about giving without overgiving.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the giving but not getting the same in return, you’re not alone. You might struggle to set boundaries, or question where you truly belong.
I know this pattern well. Previously, I used to think being generous meant saying yes to everything. I thought I had to hold space for everyone and put my own needs last.
Unfortunately, I had to learn the hard way that overgiving doesn’t create deeper connections; it creates exhaustion and resentment.
The more I learned about Human Design, the more I realised it shows us what we need to work on. It can help us to stop feeling compelled to do more ‘inner work’ without truly creating change and acceptance.
Sometimes you don’t need to do more inner work. You need to know how to move forward in a way that’s right for you.
Understanding your unique energy blueprint changes everything. It helps you trust yourself, set boundaries that stick, and build relationships and a business that feels mutually supportive and not one-sided.
If you’re:
- Feeling unappreciated or taken advantage of in relationships or work
- Over-giving and struggling to receive support in return
- Feeling like you have to ‘hold everything together’ for others
- Feel a tendency to avoid conflict to maintain harmony
Try out these affirmations:
I thrive in relationships that are built on mutual support, and I give without over-giving.
My energy is valuable, and I am worthy of receiving in return.
Check out these journal prompts to contemplate this week. Grab some paper and just free-write whatever comes up without editing or censoring. Enjoy!

If you want to boost your boundaries and claim who you truly are so that you magnetise the right people, amplify your impact and stop hustling, book a 1:1 Human Design session.
Read more about Human Design here or check out some of my other articles here.
Kylie x
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